Thursday, June 30, 2011

Online Bullying

Vivian will kill me for this because she told me not to make patol but wanna write about Online Bullying. Kailangan ko ito mailabas mga Ateh kundi baka maconstipate ako ng tuluyan.

You know I love blogging. I have always loved sharing stories with my friends. In La Salle, we had a 6 hour gap between classes and my friends didn't get bored because I was always making kwento about anything and everything. I'm like that. Pinaglihi kasi ako sa pwet ng manok. Kaya swak sa akin ang magblog dahil konting kibot may kwento ako.

Yun lang, there are some people (haters i call them) who takes advantage of the internet and cowardly hides behind an anonymous name to bash you online. In you own effing blog, mind you ha. Ookrayin ka nila. They will comment about how much of a bad mother you are or how much babaw you are. They'd even tell you not to post outfit photos kasi hindi naman daw ako maganda magdamit. Nakakaloka. Sometimes, it affects me already. It makes me think twice if I should continue doing this sharing to the world wide web.

I don't understand naman bakit nagmamaasim ng sobra ang mga ito pero punta naman ng punta sa blog mo divah? They won't admit it but you struck a chord in them that makes you addicting to them. Hindi nga lang nila matanggap yun. Hindi nila matanggap na mas maganda ka sa kanila.

Chos.

Anyways, I step back and look at the situation in a bigger perspective. I see some of my mommy readers emailing me to say how much they appreciate my blog. It helps them daw. Topaz Mommy even said so. I see some readers commenting how entertained they are with my stories. Nakakataba ng puso. And when I count them, these appreciative readers are far more greater in volume than that one anonymous basher. Oo isa lang siya. All the nega comments are worded the same way. Medyo jologs. And they all came from only one IP address.

Kilala ko na siya. Natawa na lang ako because if you can just see how she dresses, you will wonder bakit siya namimintas sa iba.

Anyways, my advice to you other bloggers who have these kind of readers is not to mind them. I know when you get to read their nasty comments, you will feel a certain kirot. It hurts of course but don't mind them. Turn to your loved ones and to those who appreciate you. Their opinions are the ones that should matter. Keber niyo diyan sa mga inggiterang frogs na yan. Isipin niyo na lang, sikat na kayo. Kaya kahit wala naman kayong ginagawa, may haters na kayo. Just continue doing what you love. Things we say and do should not be dictated by other people. Especially not by people like them.

One of my best friends is right. Mga taong walang breeding and insecure lang ang may oras gumawa ng mga ganyan. Pathetic.

So let's just smile and wish dumugo ang kuko ng mga yan kakatype ng mga pangookray nila sa atin.

Peace! =)

22 comments:

  1. Hahaha! As always, laging me sipa at the end of your post. =) Keber na nga sa mga negas out there and "her" taking the time to visit your blog and post a comment - haller it just shows interested din sya to know what's the latest with you. Deadma na lang, Mommy Fleur. Pampadami din ng blog traffic yan. Haha!

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  2. Way to go Fleur! Dapat talaga minsan you have to put these people in their place. True yun sinabi ng friend mo na insecure mga taong ganyan at tama ka, sikat ka na kasi may fans and haters ka. Hehe. Just do what you love. Happy nga ako para sayo kasi ang gutsy mo na aminin ang faults and weaknesses mo online. For that, I applaud you at bow ako sayo! Keep on blogging! :)

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  3. amen to that! have i thanked you already for being an inspiration to my starting a blog? and have i mentioned before that i start my day by reading your blog? it doesn't matter to me if you're maarte (we all are afterall! ^_^), i like you because your blog shows how real a person you are. kaya tama, keber sa kanila! saka please lang, pakidalasan ang pagpost ng entries teh, pwede? haha!

    nabibiting reader,
    lanie ^_^

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  4. kung sino ka man nag comment ng negative sa blog na itech...manahimik ka na...WHY??? because of the following reasons:
    1. Blog mo ba itech????
    2. Wala basagan ng trip...puede???...pk mo kong gusto mag display ni Eng'r. Fleur ng mga nabiling niyang damit sa 168/199/Forever21 and from so many mamahalin & sosyhal mall and store here n abroad...pera mo ba ginamit niya...di naman di ba???....kaya MAGBASA ka na lang and lumuwa mata mo sa inggit....OKAY!
    3. Aminin mo na lang sa world wide web na naaliw ka rin magbasa ng mga post ni Eng'r Fleur. Kong di mo type post nia...YOU HAVE ALL THE RIGHT TO CLICK the word EXIT....hokey....

    Ay naku umagang umaga na stress yata beauty ko...ORAGON man na.

    GoW GoW Gow lang Eng'r Fleur....you have all the right to write and post what you want in this blog...basta no violation of the GOLDEN RULE of LIFE....Godbless you more.

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  5. hi fleur. i'm one of the many who reads your blog on an (almost) daily basis. i read it esp when i'm bored or grumpy and it helps make my day brighter. you write so candidly it feels like i've known you for a long time.


    btw, yoou never got to blog (yet) about why kinikilig ka on the day you were to present during the mancom.

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  6. as a new reader of your blog (i discovered it only this month when you asked permission from baghag to feature her banner), i was instantly hooked! i now check your blog multiple times daily, even before fashionpulis! super naaaliw ako sa mg kwentos mo. so, do keep it up! it would be a pity if you'd stop just because of one mean person. you really can't please everybody, so just think that your fans, friends, and supporters greatly outnumber the haters at any given time (yan ang advice sa akin ng isang friend ko when a bwisit mom once criticized my daughter and i thought may mapatay akong tao). i also loooove your shopping posts, so continue on!!

    on a lighter note, zara sale starts today!! plus exclusive sm sale today for sm advantage members... btw, i was just wondering why you didn't write about the recent crocs sale? i would expect na you'd be there since shoppingera ka... anyway, gow na tayo sa zara!!!

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  7. keber na kung sino man sha!i love your blog!i get a lot of mommy tips from you=) keep em posts coming!

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  8. Hi mommy fleur..... i love your attitude...sumisikat ka na kaya may hater ka na..hayaan mo siya..insecurang frog lang yan....siguro love may pagnanasa kay alvin yan kaya sya galit na galit sa u..hahahaha! peace!

    love,

    salvergina!

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  9. tumuh!keber sa mga inggiterang froglets na yan!inggitmuch lang yan kaya nagiinarte..don't take it as an insult nana..it only shows na sikat ka teh..inuulan siguro siya ng insecurities sa katawan nya kaya siya bittermuch..hehehe!

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  10. hi mommy fleur,your blog is my daily dose of kikayness and just about anything.you're one of my inspiration in blogging and hopefully ma-meet kita in person,pa-picture ha! hihi. God Bless you and your family! :)

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  11. Sis, feeling ko happy na yang one and only hater mo kasi sinama mo na sya sa blog mo!!! hehehe

    Sana manahimik na!!

    --JD

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  12. i agree with the comments.. kami nga ng mga friends ko part pa ng bonding moments namin ang pag-usapan ang mga adventures mo at ni anika eh! so keep writing! you make us happy just by sharing snippets of your life :)

    And remember... People throw stones only at trees laden with fruit :)

    More power Mommy Fleur!

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  13. not sure if what i said earlier got posted :)

    anyways, don't her/them. inggitera lang yan coz u sure can speak your mind. minsan nga i wanna make my own blog na just so i can comment with my picture hehe i love reading your blog everyday. i find your stories amusing, esp the ones with anika :) i'm a mommy din kasi to a little girl who's 1 and 1mo. when you said anika knows na how to play her stacking rings, i tried to teach my little girl and in less than 15mins she knows na how. so see, what you said is true. they're never too young to be taught a thing or two :) keep on writing! godbless!

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  14. Dont mind them. You inspire and influence me in a lot of things. Inggit lang sila.

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  15. deadmahin ang mga INSECT-kyur! =)

    i love you blog! everyday, mga minimum 10times ko chine-check kung may bago kang post! kaya pag weekends medyo sad ako kase alam ko wala kang post...

    keep on bloggin' Ms. Fleur!!! ♥♥♥

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  16. the mere fact that she hides behind the monicker ANONYMOUS, insecure sya, nanglalait pero takot. i've met the "hater" na & all i can say is, jologs nga sya, nanglalait pero copycat nman ng lahat ng gawin at suotin mo. ;)

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  17. I repeat:

    ~ A man's manners are a mirror in which he shows his portrait. ~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

    Tatagalugin ko para kay Anonymous 1, kung pangit manners mo, pangit ka! SHIYET!

    Ikaw naman Fleur, tigas ng ulo mo haha!

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  18. Hi Ms. Fleur! Don't mind them...you have more blog readers and am one of them! though u deleted me from ur fb friend list 3mos ago...i stil lov reading ur blog entries...coz it entertained me & i enjoyed reading it..so blog more, hayaan mo na lng sya/sila..

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  19. If they don't like your blog they can get the hell outta here!

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  20. Don't change a thing, Mommy Fleur. :) Your blog really is addicting! I just discovered it recently, but like several others, I find myself checking it several times a week to see what you've been up to. :)

    Think of her as the spice of your online life. :P

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  21. SO TRUE. I went through that, and the best way was really not to make patol. Be the bigger person and just let the universe take care of them. Eventually these people will self- combust because they are very troubled on their own-- with or without your presence in their lives. And you just have to pray that they don't bring any more innocent people down with them. Meanwhile you continue to live your life and just make sure you keep everything positive and light- hearted. In the end people will see who the better person is. Just stay true to who you are :) xx

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    1. Ms. Ingrid, is that really you?! I cannot believe it! *super mega star struck!*

      Wait I'll go to your site and email you.

      Have to close my dropped jaw now...

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