And I'm Back!

Yessssss... I'm back!

I MISSED YOU GUYS!!!!

I apologize for the lack of posts mga bakla. My last post was last Wednesday pa and it's so not me to be quiet ng ganyan ka talaga #alamniyoyan. I went through something sad these past few days. Warla kasi kami ni Sombrero. I didn't blog na kasi baka puros nega na lang ang maging laman ng posts ko. I was really sad kasi eh.

I won't go into the details of the fight anymore. It was generally about his lack of time for me (take note, for me lang ha? Kay Anika, hindi nawawalan ng time yan), how things have changed between us since we got married and me being a drama queen.

Ang hirap kasi sa ating mga babae, when we make inarte, it's always because we're girls. Meaning, if we have concerns, automatic they will think nagdradrama lang tayo or it's that time of the month na sinasapian tayo. Hindi tayo masyado naseseryoso. It piles up tuloy. Hindi nareresolve kasi most of the time, nadedeadma ang concerns natin ng mga men. 

Hindi kasi tama yun eh.

Whenever I say, "Babe lambingin mo naman ako.", all I get most of the time is a pat on the head. Pet lang ang peg. The most a short hug. Hindi yun yun eh. When I say, "Babe, lambingin mo naman ako.", what it means for me is hug me ng matagal then tomorrow call me at magsweet-sweetan ka sa akin then balik sa hug sa gabi. Consistent dapat. 

The men kasi also tends to be complacent. I'm not saying all. You are lucky if you're in a relationship with someone na everyday talaga sweet sayo and yung hindi nagbago simula nung nililigawan ka pa lang. Ibang breed yan. Alagaan mo na ng wagas yan kasi ang swerte swerte mo na talaga. Pero most men kasi, especially those who are working (which malamang is almost all husbands), dumadating yung point na hindi na nila napapansin na hindi na sila sweet sa asawa nila. They don't make an effort na to make lambing. They don't make an effort na to compliment the wives. They don't make an effort na to do all the lovey dovey stuff that they did to us before.

Eh yan yung gusto nating mga girls, right?

Don't get me wrong. Hindi naman everyday noh. Nakaka-umay yun. Pero at least man lang yung often enough na we don't feel ummm... neglected ba yung term? Us girls will have the forever need to feel loved, appreciated and wanted. These feelings will never go away even after marriage. In fact, for me, mas lalo pa natin need yan after we get married di ba?

It's also important girls that we communicate this to the husbands. What you feel. Ano gusto mo. Yun nga lang, more often, it will come as nagging to them. Nakakaloka di ba? 

Actually, Alvin and I talk naman. I tell him a lot of things especially tungkol sa feelings ko, sa nararamdaman ko and about the things that I emotionally need. Ang nakaka-inis, lalaki ang asawa ko. Hindi yan ma-tackle sa feelings. Ang important sa kanya is that he loves me. Sinabi ko, though I appreciate that, kulang yung ganyan lang. Actions speaks louder than words nga di ba?

We talked last Wednesday night. Hindi naman na-resolve. So the next day, dineadmadela ko ang lolo niyo. Aba. Deadmadela din!

Wala. 

Loss ang beauty ko. 

Sama ng loob ko talaga. 

Nag-inom nga ako that night.

I swear malaki pa sa fez ko yang frozen margarita na yan.

And sino ang ka-gimmik ko?!

Kita niyo naman ang mga bespren ko. Alert! Thanks also to Kaye =) *hug*

Eh di si Wowa.

Hay. I love my mom talaga. Maswerte ako.

Toots followed there too to have dinner with us. He thought we were going to watch a movie.

TOOTS: Di ba tayo manonood ng sine?

ME: Wag na. Baka hindi ako payagan dalhin etong iniinom ko sa sinehan.

Then Wowa and I started ranting about boys.

TOOTS: Takte, maling gimmik ata etong napuntahan ko eh.

Lolz.

The next day, I woke up with a terrible hangover. Deadma pa din ang asawa ko.

I got really mad and told him that I'll be spending the long weekend na lang over at my family's house. Takutan na ito mga bakla. Kaso he said, sige daw kung hindi naman ako mapipigilan. Then off he went to play golf.

Para talaga akong nalugi nung araw na iyon.

At talagang may picture ng drama moment na yun eh no? Hahaha. Anika told kasi her yaya to take a photo of us eh. Di yan sadya. Swear.

Anyways, Pineda called me that morning because they weren't able to contact me the night before. My phone's battery died kasi. Akala nila umiiwas ako. We agreed to meet up for brunch with the bagets. Nagtext brigade na ako kay Arnaiz, Vivian and Bing na sumama.

Damayan na ito.

Peachy was also messaging me what's wrong sa FB. I love my bestfriends talaga. Maswerte ako I have them.

When Anika and I arrived back home, dumating na din ang Alvin. He hugged me. Tama na daw.

Anong tama na?! Sabi ko maglalayas na ako pero naggolf pa din siya?! Utot.

It turned out that yung golf na yun was set last month pa with the really VIP clients. He couldn't not go. It was something that he couldn't get out of.

Fine.

Hinatak ako ni Sombrero inside our bedroom and told Anika to play outside and then......

We talked.

We talked lang noh. Hay naku, hindi na ako madadaan sa ganyan ngayon. Seryoso ako sa concerns ko. Lolz!

Yun na nga, we talked after that. Thankfully, na-gets niya na ako finally. Realize, realize na hindi lang talaga ako nagiinarte. He admitted that I was right. Hindi rason ang stress sa opisina. Sabi nga ng bestfriend ko, marriage requires a lot of effort. Totally e-effort ka talaga if you want it to make it work. 

So ayun, love love na ulit kami now. Bawal na ang internet sa kama. Itatapon ang cell phone! Hahaha!

Before I end this blog entry, I wanna share with you this meme:

In any relationship ha, not just marriage, this is true.

Osha, balik positive vibes na okay? =)

See you in a while guys! Gotta write lots and lots of blog entries today =)

Abangan!