I'm so sorry for not blogging for three days. Three days!!!! Imagine how much I missed you guys!
I went through something kasi na hindi ka-dalian last week. Sabay sabay eh. It was so heavy that I shut down emotionally. Zombie mode ba.
The thing about personal blogs like mine is well... they're really personal. It's all about the feelings of the blogger. Lahat ng kwento personal. Yun na. However, as much as I want to share with you all the details of what happened, I apologize but I cannot. Things that have affected me and my marriage concern other people whose problems and stories are not mine to tell.
So ayun na nga, because of these incidents, Alvin and I got to this really ugly fight.
I-balato niyo na lang muna sa akin for the meantime ang details, mga friendships. Super long story kasi.
Basta pinagawayan namin ng bongga iyan. Tapos sinabayan pa ng stress sa work. Ang gulo gulo talaga, these past three days! The tension level was really high between us. As expected, it exploded at our faces last night. Hurtful words were said. More hurtful words were said back.
What would a person do?!
Eh di mag-inom! (wag akong tularan)
I was drinking with my friends last night when Wowa called.
Our mediator was on fire!!!
Ra-ta-ta-tat! Ra-ta-ta-tat! Ra-ta-ta-tat!
Natanggal ata tutuli ko!
I can understand her though, you know. Her worst fear is magaya kami sa kanila ni Papa. She talked sense into my ma-pride system.
Sulit naman. When I got home until this morning, Alvin and I talked. Nagka-ayos naman kami after three days of conflict. I was so relieved after that. I really hate it when Alvin and I fight. Ang sama sa loob eh.
Main learning is that COMMUNICATION is the key to everything. Wag kimkimin. If you find something wrong with your spouse, tell them. Then he should reply back and you guys will have to try to resolve it together. If you don't say anything at nagpaka-martyr levels ka diyan, kasalanan mo na yan kung bakit ka nasasaktan. How can a person change himself if he doesn't know na may problema pala?!
So now, we're back to our usual programming. Happy, happy na ulit. Call on all the positive vibes again! =)
Super positive vibes talaga (except for our wallets) because we're officially moving to the new house tomorrow!!! Woohooo!!!! We were buying stuff of the house the whole day today! I discovered Mandaue Foam and gosh, I loved it so much!!! I'll tell you guys all about that soon!
Osha, I'm uploading the photos already from that trip to the Mandaue Foam store and ofcourse, I will be announcing real soon the winners of my last three Thank You Giveaways! =)
Wait for it ha?
I also want to take this opportunity to thank all those who texted, emailed, tweeted and messaged me. I love you guys! Swerte ako I have family, friends and blog readers like you =)