To help out more, I have these few tips to mommies who are currently planning or will be planning their babies' birthday parties:
Do not be affected by other people. Keber mo sa kanila. Believe me, I have been judged by more than two people while I was planning Anika's birthday party, including my mother. Kesa daw Anika is too young to remember it kaya I shouldn't spend that much. Tinaasan ko na nga lang ng kilay. Hello! That's what photographs are for!! Also, Alvin, me, Girlie and other guests will be there to tell her about her wonderful first birthday party when she's older. Kwento ba. And as long as you know you saved up for it and didn't bother anyone for the money you spent, go go go! Wala silang pakialam. At ang mudra ko? Enjoy na enjoy sa party! Nakakaloka! Harhar!
Think about the theme carefully before you decide on it. I advise you a trip to Divisoria first to canvass if you can find prizes, lootbags and whatevers connected to your theme.
Invest on a good host, event stylist (if you decide to get one) and good food. These three are the make or break of all na pinaghirapan mo in planning for you baby's special day.
Try to Do-It-Yourself some of the items. For example, the invitations (
like I did!). Not only it will help lessen the expenses but also it creates a special and personal touch to the event.
Do not be lazy to canvass suppliers. Or ask around. Ask your other mommy friends for referrals with the suppliers they got for their own kids' parties. Be a member of Newlyweds at Work. The supplier ratings that they have there are super duper useful!
Do a RSVP. Seriously. We live in a country where people take RSVP for granted. You know what to do? Call them. Make them kulit if they are coming or not. During Anika's baptism reception, 150 people were invited. 120 said that they will come (so i prepared food for 120 guests). 80 guests showed up. After the party, namimigay ako ng bila-bilaong pancit to the guests. Super daming leftovers! Super sayang. I know better now. For Anika's first birthday party, I invited 110 guests. 85 confirmed. I asked the caterer to prepare for 80 guests. May mga leftovers pa rin after the party! See the pattern here?
When they say you need at least 50 pieces of game prizes, they are not kidding. When Bing told me to prepare at least 40-50 game prizes, lumaki mata ko! Buti na lang there are a lot of good toys for 20 pesos in Divisoria! I bought 60 pieces, combination of minor and major prizes. Ubos. Kids very happy!
Hotdogs with marshmallows and ice cream are always a hit with the kids.
Dress the birthday celebrant comfortably. You do not want the main celebrator fidgeting and to be uncomfortable with what they are wearing. They will surely become grouchy. They have to deal na nga with all the guests staring at him or her, we don't want to add more stress to the little one. Make them as comfortable as possible. Also, remember to bring enough milk and snack for the birthday celebrant.
It is best to schedule the party around time your baby is awake. For example, Anika sleeps at 10am to 1pm. So we scheduled the party at 2pm =) She wasn't that grouchy at all =)
Prepare a separate loot bag contents for kids with ages one and half years old and below from the older ones. They will surely appreciate it.
Do not be shy in telling your friends what your baby needs when they ask what gift they can give. You do not want to end up with 10 pairs of baby shoes or three exact same dresses that your baby already has in her closet, would you? Tinanong ka naman nila eh. Hindi ka nagprisinta. Okay lang yun =)
Lastly, do not forget to enjoy the party with your hubby and baby! =) This event only comes once in a lifetime for you and your baby. Enjoy it!!